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BONNIE BOSEWELL: Hello,
I'm Bonnie Bosewell, and welcome to our Webcast. Well as children
grow out of the toddler years and start spending more time on their own,
teaching them take care of themselves becomes just as important as parental
supervision. From riding bikes to crossing the street, your child
will be engaging in activities where safety is their responsibility.
Well one of the main safety issues facing children at this age, and what
can you do to make sure they're staying safe.
Joining me to discuss injury prevention for five to eight
year olds is Dr. Alan Nager. He is the Director of the Emergency
Department at the Children's Hospital Los Angeles. Thank you so much
for being with us to talk about this really interesting age because these
kids are a little bit more savvy than they've ever been before. Describe
what it's like for them to understand the rules of behavior that will keep
them safe.
ALAN NAGER, MD: Well this is an interesting age
because, contrary to children at younger ages, this is the age range in
which children are trying to understand the rules. They learn by
examples. So if you as a parent are good role models for your children
and set concrete, good, wholesome examples, your children will follow those.
Also children are gaining independence; they want to go out there and see
what's the real world like. They might try to get away with things.
They may want to try and impress their peers. So there are a number
of issues which make this age group very complicated, and especially trying
to instill safety guidelines or rules for them.
BONNIE BOSEWELL: So they're risk takers at this
point. And what about their judgment at this point?
ALAN NAGER, MD: Their judgment is really questionable.
Kids have difficulty judging and perceiving sounds, distances, sort of
those concrete things in our environment which make their world very complicated.
Those perceptions ultimately may make them make bad choices, ultimately
causing accidents.
BONNIE BOSEWELL: Okay, well that becomes particularly
important in just their everyday life. For example, crossing the
street. Let's talk about some of the things that happen to kids just
being on the street. What kinds of things do you find typical that
will happen to kids as they're learning these rules in the street?
ALAN NAGER, MD: Well our emergency department is
jam packed full of concrete examples and the kinds of injuries we see on
a daily basis. We see kids crossing the street without looking.
We see kids making playgrounds out of streets. We see a number of,
for instance, scooter injuries in which kids cross the street on their
scooter. They have isolated a particular area of the street or parking
lot into their own, or their so-called own play area. And it eventually
leads to disaster. We see kids every week who come in after getting
hit by cars, having cars back into them, riding bikes into parking lots.
Those kinds of things all lead to disaster.
BONNIE BOSEWELL: Well what's a parent to do?
For example, my child, who I've always told, you know, look both ways before
you cross the street. And he goes, "Yeah Mom, I know." And
then right away he goes out. And I really don't have the sense that
he's got it. I mean he tells me he has it. And I know he's
heard it. But he doesn't really get it. How is a parent to
really give them enough leeway and independence to honor that, but then
still check them out. What do you suggest?
ALAN NAGER, MD: Well I think the key is, first off,
teaching your kids appropriate ways of playing. By that I mean they
must learn the rules. Going out to play a game which involves particular
rules or particular equipment, the game must be played by those rules using
those pieces of equipment. A child who goes out to play baseball
but uses the bat to swing at another child because they got upset isn't
following the rules of the game. There are other examples.
For instance, incorporate your child into the rule making. Ask the
child, what do you think would happen if you played here, or if you used
this piece of equipment. By incorporating the child's opinions, making
them part of the active process, you'll get better control of that child
because he or she may feel that they're helping to invent the rules and
therefore following them more closely.
BONNIE BOSEWELL: I like that. I'm going to
try to use that myself. Now one thing I want to ask about kids, you
talk about them exploring. I mean, my kid on his bike loves to do
it. He thinks he's like in Barnum & Bailey circus or something
because he likes to, you know, get up on that handlebar. I mean that's
just what he likes to do. How do you handle that?
ALAN NAGER, MD: Well kids like to take risks.
You know, we had a child come in a few months ago who was walking on the
top of the fence. And when we asked him, "Why were you walking on
the top of the fence" he said, "Well the other children were doing it so
I wanted to do it." The emphasis that I think this child was trying
to portray to us was, in front of a peer group, in front of his friends,
he wants to look, or he wanted to look just as good. So there's lots
of peer pressure out there to perform, to be the best, to be accepted.
And all of those things create dangerous situations.
BONNIE BOSEWELL: What about things like bicycles?
Because kids moving fast, now we have scooters—we used to have just bicycles,
now we have multiple ways. We have scooters that they use themselves,
but also motorized scooters. So what are the things that they should
be aware of? And parents, what should they do to help their kids
be safe?
ALAN NAGER, MD: Well first off I think the bicycle
has to be of the appropriate size for that child. Kids like to feel
big and in control. So it's not uncommon that a child will get on
a brother or sister's big bike. Next, making sure they ride in the
appropriate designated area, in a well-lit area.
BONNIE BOSEWELL: So location is important.
ALAN NAGER, MD: Very important. Also making
sure they have adequate protection, which is a properly, well-suited helmet
for that child. And again, looking at the safety rules for bicycle
riding. You look both ways. You ride in a particular bike lane.
You ride with supervision. And you make sure that you understand
the rules incorporated with bicycle riding.
BONNIE BOSEWELL: And I suppose even in some cases,
a lot of times there are those skateboards that you can go to actual areas
where it's designated for that, as you said.
ALAN NAGER, MD: Exactly.
BONNIE BOSEWELL: It can actually be fun. Let's
talk a little bit about being in the car. What should kids at this
age be aware of, and their parents?
ALAN NAGER, MD: We see a number of auto related
injuries, kids getting hit by bikes, kids getting hit by cars, car getting
hit by other cars. There's really a combination. A child has
to take the responsibility with reminders from a parent to make sure they're
in a seatbelt with an appropriate restraint, and that's a restraint across
the chest, not on the neck, or across the head, or in back of the child.
BONNIE BOSEWELL: Those don't work.
ALAN NAGER, MD: Those absolutely don't work.
And we do see kids who come in, and they have marks on their body that
tell us the belt wasn't put on properly. Otherwise those marks wouldn't
exist. But it has to be enforced as well. Kids would much rather
get in a car and not take the time or the energy. So it does take
some consistent rules, and those have to take place by a parent providing
that inspiration.
BONNIE BOSEWELL: Thank you so much for your comments.
We really appreciate them and I'm sure parents will put them to use.
thank you.
ALAN NAGER, MD: Thank you.
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